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sifted like wheat…

07 Monday Mar 2011

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attitudes, faith, Jesus, sin, wisdom

There are some things we believe in our lives that are just lies, flat out. I hear people lie about themselves all day, everyday. My hair is natural, and I often hear people tell me, ‘I don’t have hair like you, my hair is too nappy to wear natural.’ As I attempt to clean up my diet and health, people say, ‘ I can’t eat healthy, I need to eat greasy food everyday.’ I often hear men say things like…’I'm just a pimp or a thug, that’s who I am I can’t change.’ Well, who told you that these things and attitudes were correct?

Satan, the author of lies, tells people everyday that there is something about leading a healthy, peaceful life in a walk with Jesus Christ is unattainable. I think the enemy loves it when we use our cloudy emotions or past failures to justify being stagnant.

In Luke 22:31-32 Jesus says:

And the Lord said, “Simon, Simon! Indeed, Satan has asked for you, that he may sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, that your faith should not fail; and when you have returned to Me, strengthen your brethren.”

When I hear that, I get an image in my head of grain being shaken through a strainer, separating the larger pieces from smaller ones. Believe it or not, I don’t have much experience with how grain and wheat is produced (that’s a joke), so I did some research:

Manual Threshing

  • Manual threshing
    Manual threshing

    The first step in process of sifting wheat is to loosen the chaff from the edible grain, which is called threshing. The old fashioned way to do this is to spread the wheat onto a floor made from stone, concrete or tamped earth and to beat it with a flail. This is no longer done in the developed world, but in some places where machines are expensive and human labor is not, manual threshing is still common.

  • Winnowing

  • The next step is called winnowing, where the loosened chaff is removed from the grain. The old fashioned way of doing this was to throw the grain in the air, where the lighter chaff would be blown off by even a decent breeze. The heavier grains would fall back to the ground below where they were thrown.
  • Read more: How Do Farmers Sift Wheat? | eHow.comhttp://www.ehow.com/how-does_4925686_farmers-sift-wheat.html#ixzz1FsSnIX2Q

    So Satan desired to mentally beat the crap out of the disciples until they lose their faith. And he chose one of the hardest times of their lives, when their beloved leader Jesus would be crucified, to inflict his plan.

    People believe the lies of the enemy daily, and in that process he is sifting people like wheat. He tells people everyday that they are ugly, stupid, unworthy, unloveable, unteachable, destined to be a slave to certain sins and habits their whole lives. I am confident in many areas of my life, but I have insecurities and low points that replay in my head at the most inopportune times that cause me not to try. Some people can’t even imagine their lives different from their current dysfunction. That cycle of mental pain is equal to be sifted, I think.

    In what ways might you be tossed and torn about in anguish? Is your diet causing your demise? Are certain attitudes about yourself causing your life not to be abundant? Let’s pray for ourselves and one another that we can maintain our faith and love in God during trials and be willing to address those attitudes in our lives that cause us to continually fail.

    Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.

    James 4:7

    Spiritual Massage Therapy

    29 Sunday Aug 2010

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    He who walks with the wise grows wise,
    but a companion of fools suffers harm.

    Proverbs 13:20

    “you don’t wanna hear the truth, so imma lie to you, make it sound fly to you…”

    Cee-lo

    I was out of line the past week or so. Doing and thinking stuff I had no business doing and thinking. Trying to justify my slippery slope thinking for all sorts of reasons instead of calling it what it is. Luckily for me, my friends are not in the business of massage therapy. The listen to me, they comfort and calm me. But after all that, they tell me when I am wrong.

    The hallmark of any good friend is a person who is brave enough to Biblically correct you when you are wrong. I am not perfect, and I know my friends aren’t either. We accept one another for the growing, changing people we are. A true friend will let you be the unique person you are. But they will not cease to correct you when you are wrong.

    Some of us want massage therapy friends. We want ‘yes men or women’ around us to okay our foolishness and turn a blind eye to preventable mistakes. Some people thrive when a friend tells them the world is wrong and that wrong thinking is right. After a long talk with your friends, do you feel as relaxed and calm as a day at the spa? Or do you feel challenged to reexamine your thoughts and decisions? Proverbs 27:17 says, As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. In order for an iron to sharpen an iron, both object have to be tough! Have you been massaged by friends and family so long that you are wimpy and emotional? Or are you strong enough to help and be helped when needed?

    A real friend will tell you that you are wrong, at the risk of your friendship to prevent you from making a life changing mistake. A real friend will respect your feelings, but edify your spirit with real solutions, not petty, stupid ones. A good litmus test for your friends is this: do they make your mind and body feel good, or do they make your spirit feel good? Do your friends give you advice and wisdom based on the Bible, or a Cosmo magazine?

    We have a responsibility to choose wise people to be around. This isn’t to say we just discard are silly acting friends when we become saved. But are you an example of how to act, or are you just as silly as they are? When you know you are wrong, irrational or emotion, do you call someone who is going to massage your stupidity, or do you call that friend who will tell it like it is?

    I used to try to act like I had it all together. And I hated when people tried to be all up in my business. But then I started to see that some people are not around you to see you grow, change or be a better person. Some people are just dead weight, there for the ride, purposely or accidentally causing drama.

    Next time you need someone to talk to, don’t call your friends who will massage you into thinking everything is OK when you really need to take some spiritual action to change your situation. Be mature and let someone who cares about your spirit speak a Word over you that will activate change!

    9 Things That Don’t Make You A Good Christian

    11 Sunday Jul 2010

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    attitudes, faith, how to, Jesus, music, relationships, salvation, the church, wisdom, worship

    Wearing a cross necklace doesn't make you a good Christian either...

    Since I’ve started this new, wonderful relationship with God, I have noticed that people are trying to prove to me that they know God too! It’s kind of weird, because there are people who have misquoted the Bible in front of me or been accidentally blasphemous, trying to show me that they know the Bible just like me.

    People should strive to explore God personally and corporately through a church where they belong and not try to compare their experiences to someone else’s. So I’ve come up with a list of things that people should examine to make sure that they are working toward having the most quality relationship with God that they can have for them, and not for other people.

    1. Not accepting Jesus Christ as your savior

    If you don’t understand and accept what Jesus did for us, then you are not a Christian. Accepting that Jesus died for our sins is the first requirement to being a Christian. You may attend church, and you might believe in a “higher power” but if you don’t know or understand the sacrifice, you should do everything you can to understand that first and foremost.

    2. Forwarding “Christian” emails

    We all get emails from people talking about a sick kid or someone who died tragically that makes you want to cry, then tells you to forward it on to eight people if you are a “real Christian” and some “miracle” will happen. For like 10 seconds I feel bad for not forwarding those things on, then I remember that we cannot treat God like he is a chain letter or pyramid scheme. If you want to share testimonies or information about God, that is great, just don’t put stipulations on it that make people uncomfortable.

    3. Knowing the Word and not doing the Word

    There are so many people who can quote the Bible, yet do not apply its wisdom to their life. Even the devil knows the Bible! He uses it to confuse us! Knowing the Bible verbatim is wonderful and shows that you study, but knowing it and not doing it is a futile practice. It shows that you can memorize. A thing that people often pray is that they want to “not just be hearers, but doers of the Word.” Praying that God will help you to apply what you hear is a blessing!

    4. Having a stanky attitude

    God wants you to be nice and be happy. Point blank. Not, nice when people are nice to you. Not happy when all your bills are paid and people are acting right. Galatians 5:22-23 says: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” Going to church, reading the Bible, but being mean to your waiter or cashier is not what God wants you to do. Waking up everyday, being sad and pitying your self is not what God wants you to do. If you are unhappy or have an “attitude problem” seeking advice from the Bible, and asking God for help is the way to change.

    5. Threatening people with the Bible

    When people talk about homosexuality, abortion and politics, they often beat people over the head with the Bible. They will tell people they are going to hell if they are gay. They will quote Leviticus and tell them they are dammed. I know what they Bible says about sexual immorality, but teaching people with love reaches them before beating them over the head with the Bible. It takes more energy to actually get to know a person and understand why they do what they do, and I think that’s why people choose to just write others off.

    6. Not having a real relationship with God

    A relationship with God is personal. It’s not going to be the same thing your mom experiences, or your best friend knows. It will touch the most important and specific parts of your life. I have a friend who took years to find her artistic niche in molding and sculpting clay. One day, she told me she was reading Genesis and noticed how God was a ceramicist too. That is a personal, meaningful relationship. You establish that by asking God to reign over your life, putting everything on the line. You allow Him to use your gifts to say what He wants to say. And you thank Him for your life, and pray to Him to help you and others. So many people fake that to their own detriment, just to sound like a Christian in front of other Christians. Jesus said, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. (Matthew 7:21)” I surely don’t want to be on the other side of that fence.

    7. Worshiping other things than God

    Imagine on Judgment Day that there is an account of all the money we’ve spent, the time we’ve spent doing everything we’ve done in our lives and what has moved us the most emotionally and intellectually. How much time, money and energy have you spent on knowing God versus knowing other things in life. Have you been more engrossed and involved in sports, music, career, TV, dating, drama, etc. than learning who God is? It is an emotional, intellectual and spiritual experience that takes a lifetime of learning. Are you dedicated to that or something else?

    8. Listening to Gospel music

    Gospel music may help you feel better, remind you of scriptures and can serve as an alternate form of entertainment, but do not base your relationship with God off of it. Music can help you to praise and worship God, but it should not be the only source of your Word and relationship with Him. You should be able to feel better, know scripture and worship God with and without an organ present or a Mary Mary CD. Gospel music definitely fills a gap, and helps us to praise and worship God, but it is only a tool and does not make you sanctified.

    9. Being a Professional Sinner

    Not wanting to change and not wanting God “all in your business” will lead to a life of professional sin. We all sin, so they doesn’t necessarily make bad. Recognizing your sin and changing your life makes you a person who really understand what God is all about.

    Choose To Listen To Wisdom!

    09 Wednesday Jun 2010

    Posted by DonnaMarie in Uncategorized

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    John Stanko, wisdom

    Via John Stanko

    “Does not wisdom call out?
    Does not understanding raise her voice?” – Proverbs 8:1.

    Wisdom is always broadcasting. Are you tuned to her channel? She is speaking, but are you listening? And what are you doing to record and remember what she says? It is important that you put your faith not in your ability to hear God’s voice but in His ability to ‘speak’ to you & answer your prayer for help.  To reinforce this, the book of Revelation states that heaven spoke to John in a loud voice 21 times!  (See Revelation 1:10 and 5:12 for  just two examples.)

    My Mommy’s Wisdom

    06 Thursday May 2010

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    Mother's Day, New Covenant, Solomon, wisdom

    Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction
    and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.

    They will be a garland to grace your head
    and a chain to adorn your neck.

    Proverbs 1:8-9

    My mommy could have been a statistic. She was raised by her grandmother in a family that didn’t have much.  She was pregnant when she graduated high school and gave birth to me just two years later. But she didn’t let her lack of knowledge or resources hinder her from being the woman she wanted to be. She didn’t want a lot of material things. She wanted to be wise. She believes a person should always be educated, no matter their background or where they came from.

    One thing my mom can’t stand is unorganized events. I surely get my event planning gene from her. She believes one should always be on time; she is a strong advocate against “CP Time.” She doesn’t even like to wait when she gets her hair done! When we are together, we like to critique weddings, baby showers and events. If they run too long or are unorganized, my mom is going to be irritated for days.

    One day, we were talking about weddings. Usually we talk about the details and laugh about the things do out of order, but the other day my mommy seemed kind of sad about it all. “It’s not about money and being fancy,” my mom confided in me. “It makes a mockery of marriage. Marriage is sacred and a wedding in a church is a religious event. I was embarrassed for them and they didn’t see anything wrong with being disrespectful in God’s house.”

    We were talking about weddings, but the lesson is deeper than that. When we are embarking on something new, different, out of our league or major, how many of us seek counsel from a source that is knowledgeable in that area? Does your independence cause you to make mistakes that you wouldn’t if you would just ask for help? We may learn ways to do things, but they might always be the right way. Just because you were raised to do something, told to do something or have been doing something a certain way your whole life, it doesn’t mean it is proper.

    “It’s about etiquette,” my mom told me. “You don’t consult somebody who is your age and has the same amount of sense that you have. It’s about havin moral value, respect and doing things the right way.”

    The Book of Proverbs is the sayings and wisdom from Solomon, whom God offered anything in the world and he chose to receive wisdom. The Bible says that the whole world sought audience with Solomon to hear the wisdom God had put in his heart (1Kings 10:24). Why is wisdom so important and valued in the Bible?

    Proverbs 3:13 says:

    Blessed is the man who finds wisdom,
    the man who gains understanding,for she is more profitable than silver
    and yields better returns than gold.

    She is more precious than rubies;
    nothing you desire can compare with her.

    Wisdom can do for you what money, status, relationships and education can’t do. Wisdom is the practice of seeking the answers and not trying to do things without the proper thinking, reasoning, planning and instruction. A person who is wise is an asset in any situation, regardless of their knowledge bank because they know how to figure things out!

    Many times, I thought that my mommy wanted to squander my fun and keep me from experiencing a lot in life. But her wisdom and respect for order and protocol is an asset that she is constantly refining. You don’t have to be born rich or attended the finest institutions to be a valuable and sought after person. Wisdom will open doors and gain you more respect than so many of those things!

    A few weeks ago, Pastor Tillman of New Covenant said that we should “learn what we can about what we don’t know.” I use my mommy as an example as a person who seeks to do things right and appropriately and can teach me to do the same. I love my mommy, and respect her for her wisdom and commitment to learning.

    Proverbs 27:17 says:

    As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.

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