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Jesus Christ, CEO: Why He’s A Better Boss Than Us

01 Wednesday Sep 2010

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Everybody I know hates their job and has a list full of things that they would differently if they were the boss. Everybody wants to be the boss, yet hates taking orders from others. Every book or article published about careers encourages everyone to be a leader, to be the boss of their own business, and not listen to others. There is nothing wrong with the entrepreneurial spirit. If I was raised around the principles of entrepreneurship, I would have surely been one of those 14-year-old millionaires, working on my fifth book. But I wasn’t. My parents are hard workers who will retire from their second (or so) jobs. My dad always tells me that my sister and I have had more jobs in high school that he had in his whole life! Funny but true.

It is practical and sensible that we find ways to make our money in these uncertain economic times. However, I see an influx of self-made CEOs that know nothing about the ethics of running a business and disregard the most important factor of being a good leader: being a good servant. People say that they are service-oriented, but are they really? The best bosses I have ever worked for are people who come early and stay late. Bosses who can and will do every one’s job in the office if necessary, and are not too proud to fill in when bathrooms needs to be cleaned and snow needs to be shoveled. Wearing a title like a big piece of blinged out jewelery is not the only duty of a boss. A real boss sacrifices the most, gives the most and the first to take the brunt of any bad decisions on the behalf of his employees.

Jesus was (is) the biggest boss we have ever seen. I don’t care what Rick Ross has to say. If he had a resume it would read something like this:

Jesus Christ

(Nazareth)

Chief Executive Officer, My Father’s Business

Founder & Operator, Christianity

Objective:

To eliminate eternal death and increase the quality of life to current and future operators of franchise (John 10:7-10)

Skills Profile:

Recruited and managed diverse staff (Luke 5:1-11)

Provided hands-on and field training to staff preparing them for their own businesses (Mark 13:4)

Created grassroots marketing campaign to boost consumer awareness (Matthew 5-7)

Grew business from local to worldwide, multi-generational and demographic entity (Matthew 28: 19-20)

Developed fool proof formula for repeated success (Philippians 4:12-13)

Committed to service not only to employees but clients regardless of commitment to business (John 13:1-17)

*Several references available upon request*

The enterprise that Jesus started is successful because of the principles and tools he used conduct his business. He could have been a jerk and lived off the notoriety of his father. But he instead was a humble servant of the people, making sure he followed the principles that God put him here to do. He did not back down from any challenge he was presented with and infamously took the punishment that his employees and customers deserved in order to further the mission of his business. Many of us say we want to be a CEO, but how many of us are willing to do these things listed above in order to be a success? We would sacrifice for some diamonds, a new car and some new clothes. But how would we sacrifice to serve people?

Service isn’t flossy. It is often the worst jobs in the hierarchy of employment. Nobody wants to work at a fast food joint, nobody wants to clean cars or hotel rooms. We don’t want to do it, and are in turn rude to the people who do it. Like that is what they want to do it. Even in customer service call centers, the horror stories about those experiences over the phone makes it seem like their job is worst than going to the cross!

Having owned my own business, I realized that I was not as committed to service as I thought I was. I was not willing to go beyond the call of duty to please people. I was not willing to give more that was paid for. Small business owners are passionate. But many lack the service attitude that is needed to be successful. That attitude teaches us the “Golden Rule” that Jesus has tried to beat into the heads of mankind since he was crucified: treat others the way you want to be treated. Patience, kindness and generosity are attributes that rarely taught when it comes to success in business. The key to real success is not about who can be the biggest cutthroat, shrewd and jerk boss. It’s about being a good servant. Following the example that Jesus set out for us, regardless of what career path you pursue will always lead to successful life. People say many things about what it takes to be great leaders, but actually ALL good leaders are good followers.

I’d Rather Have Jesus, Than MAC Lipgloss

21 Wednesday Apr 2010

Posted by DonnaMarie in Uncategorized

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about me, Jesus, New Covenant, recession, women

I’ve cried over not having makeup. And I’ve been totally depressed over the fact that I haven’t bought a new pair of shoes in more than a year. I am used to keeping up with the seasons, and the Joneses, when it comes to cosmetics and clothing. My boyfriend doesn’t understand how I feel when I see a girl rocking a shade on her lid that I know is from a new MAC collection. He just shakes his head, tries to console me and rolls his eyes.

I have a thing for things. I can be patient, kind, loving, forgiving…but I have coveted my homegirls’ lipglosses and foundations in this personal recession of mine. When Matthew 6:33 says to seek first the kingdom of God and all these things will be given to you…I surely wanted some new makeup added to me. It’ been an issue I’ve been working on; giving up my need for materialistic things in order to be closer to God. Financially, I’ve had no choice. I have been running on fumes for the past year. So splurging at the MAC counter just hasn’t been an option, even if I wanted to. And though I have had to deal with this for the past year, I never was really comfortable with it. This MAC Winter palette from 2008 I’ve been using is wearing thin and I am sure my makeup-ista friends have peeped my creativity with the same 8 colors over and over again.

In Matthew 6:28, Jesus says:

“So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.  Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?”

“But Jesus,” I always want to reply and stomp my feet! How does one deal with an attachment to things, even inexpensive things like CoverGirl or Target earrings? When Jesus asked us to deny ourselves and follow him, did he mean pseudo-essentials like makeup and hair products too?

Pastor Howard Tillman from my church New Covenant said Wednesday while preaching at First Church of God that “You’re rich when you posses Jesus.” Which is true because no matter how much makeup I have on, how fly my purse is or how dope my shoes are, the confidence I step in comes from my relationship with God. I seem to forget that when I compare my wants to my bank account.

Is it wrong for us as women to want stuff? I’d say yes when it takes priority over our happiness. I also say that the investment some of us make into our outward appearance doesn’t nearly match the investment we make to our inward appearance. In other words, have you ever seen a beautiful woman with a stank attitude?

No matter how many shoes I have, I will always want more shoes. And can a girl ever be satisfied with a couple tubes of lipgloss. Or as Solomon put it in Ecclesiates 5:10:

He who loves silver will not be satisfied with silver;
Nor he who loves abundance, with increase.
This also is vanity.

So what do I have to do to when I am feeling like crap because I don’t have what the other girls have? Pastor Tillman says, “No more am I going to thank God for things. I am going to thank Him for his presence.” I have to remember that what I have is more than colored lids and shoes that eventually hurt my toes. I have stability in God’s word and authority over the ills in my life. I have a spot in heaven next to Jesus, which is better than a spot at the MAC counter.

Matthew 6:20 says:

but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.

Sure, I like to feel pretty and look beautiful. And my boyfriend always tells me I’m pretty and look beautiful when I step out. But nobody can borrow and forget to give back the grace God gives us. Nobody can drop and crack salvation. And you know how you buy something, and it looks different when you get it home and you can’t take it back? Well, everything that God gives me is a perfect fit. In this time of my financial lack, I am starting to realize that I have more riches now than I ever had. And there’s nothing wrong with reusing that lipgloss one more time.

Clutch Magazine–Falling Out Of Faith

10 Wednesday Mar 2010

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An article featured on Clutch Magazine that talks about staying faithful to God in the face of this recession and your wordly needs.

Falling Out Of Faith

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