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Do You Care If Your Weave Is Unethical?

12 Tuesday Jul 2011

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i dont wear weave. not because im so pro-black afrocentric sista who believes all women should be happy with their natural hair. i have worn weave…and most likely would again…if i wanted to. i think there is a woman’s prerogative to do whatever she wants in the name of beauty. every culture that has ever been on this earth has included women doing questionable things in order to be pretty. women in the 16th century wore corsets that squeezed the breath out of them, and crushed their ribs. concubines in china** bound their feet for generations. some african societies see stretched necks, earlobes and lips are beautiful. i remember visiting a museum in dayton, ,ohio, and an exhibit that included a chin stool so women from egypt could prop up at night so that they wouldnt mess their hair. so crazy things for beauty is not an uniquely black american thing…in the grand scheme of things, weave is not as dangerous as the aforementioned practices. or is it?

we dont see the hurt from the weave industries, but it is there. this article in clutch magazine really opened my eyes to the atrocities of the weave industry. so my question is, do black women care if their weave is “unethical?” does it matter to us where our beauty products originate from, and whether our beauty negatively affects other women across the world? in this globally connected world we live in, it is hard to ignore these issues. what can we do to remedy these issues, while still maintaining the right to beauty?

**(this article previously mentioned that the japanese geisha were foot binders, and that was INCORRECT! always open to suggestions and corrections, so thanks to my reader who told me to fix this)

The Anti-Pretty Movement

22 Tuesday Mar 2011

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I have been trying my whole life to be pretty. There has always been girls prettier than me. Sometimes it was their hair or their clothes that made them pretty. Sometimes it was their face. When I got older, it became their bodies. I always wanted to be one of those headturning chicks, but I never have been. Now, I know I am cute…and this isn’t a low self-esteem rant. You ladies know what I’m talking about though. Though we may be comfortable in who we are, there is always that desire to be the baddest chick in the room.

I was shopping the other day, and I was looking at this skirt I thought would be sexy. And then I thought, ‘okay, I will be 30 this year so maybe this hemline should come down some.’ And next I thought, ‘who are you trying to be sexy for?’ I hate it when men talk to me in a rude way, and who cares what these other girls think about me! Why waste time and money trying to look a way that is not yourself. And that is where the anti-pretty movement comes from.

I inherently love makeup and hair. The upkeep of my skin and hair is what I do for me, and to be expressive. I love some of my clothes, but a lot of them look like something other than me. I either look like work or kickin’ it. When do I look like Donna? Do I have to attempt to look “pretty” all the time? Can’t I be plain and beautiful for once? I do love dresses, but do I have to wear one every time I dress up? What is with my pretty fascination?

So I am attempting to not put so much effort in my clothes and my “look” and I am just going to look like me for a minute. Not to say I won’t have my makeup and hair fresh, I just got other things to worry about than being pretty right now…

already dreaming of summer hair…

14 Monday Mar 2011

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Corrine Bailey Rae Won’t Let Me Cut My Hair

19 Saturday Feb 2011

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I am soo ready to cut my hair short. But every time I see photos of the beautiful Corrine Bailey Rae and her luscious wavy locs, I change my mind. Her hair is gorgeous. Maybe if I can wait until the fall, I can have hang time like her…

 

Simple Ways To Look Different in 2011

21 Friday Jan 2011

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Natural Hair Bangs

Me

Andrea of flygirls.typepad.com

Straight Hair Bangs

Via ClutchMagazine.com

Oval Nails (instead of square nails)

Both nail designs via Raven Cousar at The Strand Cafe

 

Add One Bold Color To Your Makeup Look

If you are a girl who loves browns, golds and neutrals, try adding greens to your eyes…

Christina from The Strand Cafe

…or purples…

via www.eyeshadowlipstick.com

If you only wear neutral and sheers glosses and lipsticks, try berries or reds…

Chameleon Fro: My Hairstory in 2010

21 Tuesday Dec 2010

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Me and my stylist BFF Christina, starting off the new year with healthy happy hair!

 

 

Many times you can tell where a woman is in life by what she does with her hair. Short hair often symbolizes independence, freedom and change. Long hair can mean femininity, nesting and stability. And color can mean just about anything! This year I had a lot of change and development, and I think my air can tell a story about my expectations at the beginning of 2010, and who I turned out being at the end. I want to thank one of my very close friends and my stylist Christina of The Strand Cafe for helping my hair through all of my emotional changes. Through a variety of colors, my hair has remained natural, healthy and is longer than and stronger than it has ever been! She is just phenomenal!

The Urban Cruella

I started out 2010 with a blonde streak through my afro. I was looking to define myself, show off my independence and do something different. I had seen natural girls with many different styles, but never a Cruella Deville! It was cute and fun and definitive for how I was feeling at the time!

The Pink Fro Phase

I dyed my fro pink after I interviewed for a job I was sure I was a shoe-in for, and I didn’t get it. It was an act of rebellion, I guess. Christina dyed my blonde streak pink and that independence and definition I was looking for surely came about. Everyone from my Grandma to people in the store gave me double and triple takes and my bright hair. I felt confident and free at first, but after a few weeks of pink and a potential job in the works I had to do something a little more subdued.

Summer Blonde

I got the job (yay!) and wanted to roll with something semi normal, yet bright throughout the summer. I started to think about my stability and my future, and not trying to look a certain way to get noticed. My hair continued to grow big and healthy as well!!

Vintage Black

I have always wanted jet black baby doll hair, and decided to let Christina use henna to achieve this look. My hair feels softer, yet stronger and looks sophisticated and unique without being outlandish. Not to say that I won’t dye my hair some crazy color again, but I am going to stick it out with black for at least the next year!

Fly Hair

16 Thursday Dec 2010

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Wavy big hair curls via MoptopMaven.blogspot.com

Cute Updo Kimberlie Elise via Essence.com

Nia Long's curls can be achieved with a roller set on relaxed or natural hair via Essence.com

Bang braid via Black Girl Long Hair

Very cute short do

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